tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9199356305799744530.post3775259781181563890..comments2024-03-10T05:19:29.078-04:00Comments on Stephanie Haefner: Writing a sex scene is quite exhilarating!Stephaniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17401931638397651614noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9199356305799744530.post-79711570032854475202009-05-30T10:29:09.419-04:002009-05-30T10:29:09.419-04:00Exactly!!! Sometimes I'll type somehting...soemthi...Exactly!!! Sometimes I'll type somehting...soemthing I would not say out loud...and think..."this is just not me....". But in most cases, the character is NOT me...so maybe they would use those words!Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17401931638397651614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9199356305799744530.post-24726976148671756982009-05-29T22:51:52.390-04:002009-05-29T22:51:52.390-04:00OMG! Those are exactly the problems I have writing...OMG! Those are exactly the problems I have writing sex scenes too... I feel so silly using some of the terms I've read in romance novels, so dirty using the slang terms my friends and I would, so detached using the correct terminology.. It's such a minefield!<br /><br />But man, they are fun to write, aren't they? It's preparing them for other people to read that can be a bit daunting!Guineverehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10058786129073896210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9199356305799744530.post-73966113112477138622009-05-28T21:39:08.249-04:002009-05-28T21:39:08.249-04:00MADE ME LAUGH!! I went through the same thing with...MADE ME LAUGH!! I went through the same thing with naming genitilia. LOL!!! My sex scenes look stupid to me right now, so when you find the wisdom, share! :-)Tracihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16399764927137200395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9199356305799744530.post-10891901383984517022009-05-28T18:07:21.570-04:002009-05-28T18:07:21.570-04:00Now I'm all interested at how in-depth your sex sc...Now I'm all interested at how in-depth your sex scenes are! Mine skim the surface and have no room for naming much of anything. That's just my writing, though. I think if I stuck a hot sex scene in one of my books, it would sound pretty silly. I'm glad what you're writing is working for you, though! Now get to your research. ;)Michelle D. Argylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09696465137285587646noreply@blogger.com